Sunday, November 21, 2010

Lazy.


I ignore fat people who eat uncontrollably, never exercise and complain about their weight. Every new year that's the resolution for many. I even ignore people who are unemployed, who spend their free time smoking weed instead of finding a decent job. I ignore people who constantly complain about their lives but do nothing to better themselves. Laziness. Its horrible. Nothing in this world is free or falls into your lap. I've always been a firm believer in the idea that you can only help someone so much until they have to decide to help themselves. Now lets look at that. Decide, why would you have to decide to do better in your life? Putting forth action and effort is a deterring feat for most people who fall into the "lazy" category. Another instance is people who make horrible decisions. I've always considered myself a good friend, and hopefully I am considered the same by my friends.  I will be there, but I can't sit and keep watching you falter or fall for the same shit over and over again. It's laziness to just go with what you want after asking for advice you knew you weren't going to follow. Many female friends of mine have had relationship issues and their plight has been being lazy and deciding to settle. It also fucking sucks when people are so lazy that they just agree with what you're saying just to shut you up rather than listen so they can understand your point of view. This happens in many areas. Families, Friends, Relationships and the work place. These are the same ones who are always quick to judge and never place themselves in that persons shoes. A lot of people know damn well that if a situation was reversed they'd feel completely different about it. Time has to be taken out and situations must be accessed. Laziness is a disease that's festered and affected the lives of many people. It saddens me watching lives crumble because of it. Understandably I'm different from many people, but I won't tolerate it. I want better in my life so I go for it. Sometimes I am motivated and sometimes I am not, but I get it done. Whatever it may be.

Monday, November 1, 2010

A New Horizon.



Wow. It's been a while right? Almost a year anniversary in a few weeks.
For the blog and myself & Candi =]. I've really come full circle too. My
life has picked up like I prayed and worked so hard for it to. I have a
wonderful job, a beautiful woman by my side, and finances are almost in
order. Everything is good. I've gone from working the grave shift at CVS
making dirt, to working the early bird at Apple. I've been so busy with
work that I haven't had the time to update here, let alone get in contact
with family and friends. It's like that sometimes though. When you truly
commit to something and you're focused on doing better. We're also moving in a
few weeks. From a house Maryland to a condo in Virginia. I had only realized maybe
two weeks ago that my life is secretly where I've always wanted it...RIGHT
NOW. Dream job, beautiful area to live on the East Coast, only one thing
left. Waiting on news about that though lol Anyhow, this is just a small update. New blogs coming soon! So many exciting things in my life, I gotta break 'em down and share them with you all.


Cya [=


-Ryan H (TH1RT3EN)